It's human nature to quarrel, especially when our pride gets involved. If you're married, it would be a wise decision to resolve your dispute before you go to sleep. Forgive, let go of the right to be right. The Bible has a lot to say about the source of conflicts and how to squelch them.
Hatred stirs up strife, But love covers all sins. Proverbs 10:12 (NKJV)
By pride comes nothing but strife, But with the well-advised is wisdom. Proverbs 13:10 (NKJV)
A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1 (NKJV)
He who loves transgression loves strife, And he who exalts his gate seeks destruction. Proverbs 17:19 (NKJV)
It is honorable for a man to stop striving, Since any fool can start a quarrel. Proverbs 20:3 (NKJV)
An angry man stirs up strife, And a furious man abounds in transgression. Proverbs 29:22 (NKJV)
For you are still carnal. For where there are envy, strife, and divisions among you, are you not carnal and behaving like mere men? 1 Corinthians 3:3 (NKJV)