Success and Failure Blog

Mary was the Mother of Jesus. She was a virgin and conceived Him miraculously by way of the Holy Spirit of God. She carried Him inside of her. She felt Him Move and kick as He grew and formed within her womb. She labored and went through the pain of child birth. She brought forth Jesus, her LORD and Savior. Jesus is the Messiah and the LORD and Savior of all mankind. She raised Him in the ways of God and taught Him according to the great wisdom of God. She changed His soiled clothes; she bathed Him, nurtured Him, and loved Him with all her heart.
I know that our Heavenly Father prepared Mary to be the Mother Jesus needed. God chose her from all women to be the Mother of God. Yet, I am certain Mary wondered if she would truly be a good enough Mother for Jesus. After all, she might have said to herself, “how could an earthly woman ever be good enough to raise the Son of God?” What thoughts went through her mind? What feelings did she have about this most amazing parenthood? Did she fully understand what would come of her son, the Son of God?
She sang to Him, played games with Him Kissed all His boo-boos, helped Him to study and learn, celebrated all His birthdays, and wanted the very best for Him. This is not at all unlike all loving Mothers. She knew His purpose was from our Heavenly Father. She knew Jesus did not belong to just her. He was the Father’s Son and He was to be the Savior of her people and all the people of the world, from the beginning and for all time. How must that have felt? How did Mary cope with all the knowledge she had and all the knowledge that she did not have?
Did the Father in heaven prepare her for what Jesus would do and accomplish in life? What went through her mind as her son performed great miracles and grew up to be free of sin and full of love? How wonderful it must have been to see her son Jesus mature into a wonderful and loving Man. I am sure she didn’t want Jesus to ever grow up; just like most Moms’ wish their precious babies could stay that precious forever. Yet I also think she dreamed of Him living a long and full life and she believed in Him to do great things and change the world! Just as all loving Mothers believe their children are truly gifted and special.
She was the Mother of Jesus! She was with Him when He was born and she was there for Him throughout His whole childhood. She had to let Him go when He reached the age to fulfill His destiny, and all the prophecies that had been foretold. Yet she was His Mother through it all. She was there with Him as He died upon the cross. She witnessed His love for her, and for all of us in everything Jesus ever did or said throughout His life. She then witnessed her dear Son’s death. How horrible it must have been for Mary to watch her son die on that cross for her sins and for all the sins of every person in this world. I don’t know if anything can prepare a Mother for such loss. As a Mother I know I am prepared to go before my children. I cannot even imagine how awful it would be to lose one of my children that way.
She was a great Mother and a great example for all women. It is my prayer that all Mothers will learn by Mary’s exceptional example and raise their children to love and be reverent of God. Remember they are not just your children. All children belong to God. We are all God’s Children. Know that God chose you from all women to be a Mother to your children and will prepare you to be the best Mother you can be.
As a Mother, you will have to let go of your children and allow them to become the great men and women of God they were born to be. You may even have to face tragedy along the way. Know that as a child of God, He will help you to endure all that comes your way. The love and Strength of God is what makes us strong, compassionate and loving Mothers.
It is also my prayer that all of our children come to believe in Jesus and accept them as their personal Savior. I pray our children will be saved.
I also say a special prayer to all the Mothers that have lost a child or had miscarriages. I pray that God will comfort you and fill you with all the joy and hope that Jesus’ life and death brought for all of us.
You see Jesus died but that is not where His story ended. Jesus was buried in the tomb, but His body did not remain there. Jesus was resurrected and now lives in heaven with our Heavenly Father.
If you have sorrows for the loss of a child allow God to comfort you. Know that the story of your child did not end there either. Your child is now in heaven with God and one day you can be reunited with them.
Everyone, please honor your Mothers and show them how much you love them.
Happy Mother’s Day Mary! Happy Mother’s Day to you all!

To non-Christians, it may seem odd to worship a man on a cross.  That’s because they only look at the outside.  Following the lies of the world, they don’t realize the incredible price that had to be paid for sin.  And, they don’t realize there are many confessions that Jesus is the Christ – the Son of the living God.

Does the cross seem gross?  If you saw “The Passion of the Christ,” you’d know. Indeed, to paraphrase part of Isaiah 53, He was without any real beauty that we should treasure Him when we saw Him.  He is a man of sorrows, well-acquainted with grief.  He was despised and rejected while here on Earth, and just as then, even now, people turn their faces at Him. (Isaiah 52:2-3)  God understands that to look just at the outside, it seems very bloody.  But, just as much in life, the outside is not the whole story.

See, it’s not just about a man on a cross.  There were other men hung on crosses; that was the traditional Roman form of execution.  Jesus Christ was crucified with 2 of them, in fact.  One on the left cursed and reviled Him.  However, the one on the right realized the truth.

The penalty for sin

The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. (Rom. 6:23)  What that means is that we earn death for our sin.  It’s not just physical death, it’s spiritual death.

Think of how horrible spiritual death is.  It’s torment forever in a place call hell. God never wants anyone to go there.  But, that spiritual death is what we earn because of sin.

You may ask, “What is sin?”  Sin falling short of the mark of perfection.  It’s anything we say, think or do that displeases God.

That may sound harsh, until you realize that God, in His perfect love, has a place for all those who choose to receive Him, called heaven.  It’s a place of perfect goodness and love.  There can be no suffering there, no tears, no pain, no heartache, no death.  Nobody can imagine the wonders that await us there.  It’s so much better than this wicked world.  Heaven is where God wants you to be.

But, because he wants us to be there, he had to do something to take away our sin.  That’s because there can be no sin in that perfect Heaven.

If we have all earned that spiritual death, though, God had to do something so we didn’t have to suffer spiritual death.  So, why the cross?  That brings us back to that thief on the right, the one who realized the truth, and asked Jesus to remember him when he came into His kingdom.

The gift of God

The thief on the cross told his fellow criminal that they were there because they deserved to be punished for their wrongdoing.  Then, he said that Jesus was there and had done nothing wrong.  He realized the truth.

Jesus wasn’t just a man.  If He had been only a man, he would have had to pay for His own sin, because all people are sinners.  He wasn’t just a man, though.

Jesus Christ was God in flesh.  He never did anything wrong.  This thief realized that.  He realized that Jesus Christ was God in flesh.  He didn’t have to suffer for His own sin, because he was without sin. Yet, He became sin, for us.  He was suffering for that thief’s sin, for the crowd’s sin, for my sin, your sin, everyone’s sin who ever lived.

Think about that.  All the people who have ever said something mean, hurt others, lied, cheated, stolen, been cruel and thoughtless, and many other things.  He was suffering for every single sin that was ever committed.

That’s a lot of sin.  That’s why He suffered so much.  He was god in flesh.  By Him were all things created, and without Him was not anything made that was made. (John 1:3)  God made this world perfect, but people brought sin into it, because God gave them free choice, whether to follow Him or not.  He knew everything, and He had every person ever – yes, you – on His mind on that cross.

The world tries to deny it, but Jesus was God.  This is shown throughout Scripture.

1. He Himself proclaimed He was God. When the Pharisees would ask, He’d always respond with something like our phrase, “You said it!’ or “You’ve got that right!”  Or, He’d give an I AM statement, using the same term God used in the Old Testament, a word so holy, they would never use it themselves, because only God could.  He said He was the Messiah to the woman at the well, also.

2. His miracles proved it.  He did things only God could do.

3. The Old Testament proclaimed it.  All the law and the prophets pointed to the many things He would do in His worldly ministry, that it would be God Himself.

4. God the Father proclaimed it, after Jesus’ baptism, and again on the Mount of Transfiguration. Jesus is the Son of God – the way that phrase was used, it means of the same substance.  He was, is, and always will be God.  Think of how H2O is the same, whether it’s water, ice, or water vapor.

5. His followers proclaimed it, over and over in the New Testament and afterward.

Think about it.  All any one of His disciples had to do to escape punishment was deny His resurrection.  They kept proclaiming that Jesus Christ is Lord, that he rose from the dead, because they saw it with their own eyes.  For nearly 2,000 years, believers have been willing to suffer horribly because they know in their hearts the same things the apostles saw with their own eyes.  They knew that Jesus Christ had suffered horribly for the sins of mankind, died on that cross, and risen from the dead.

That’s what it’s all about. He took the penalty for your sins, and for mine. And, there is nothing we have to do – nothing we could do – to save ourselves.  It must be completely by faith that we are saved.  Faith that Jesus Christ died on the cross, was buried, and then rose victoriously the third day.

Jesus was 100% man.  He had to be, to die on the cross.  However, Jesus was also 100% God.  He had to be, to rise from the dead.  He did.  And because of that, we can celebrate.

Yes, it looks like a bloody mess when we consider how Jesus suffered.  But, we must never forget that sin is so awful, and must be kept out of His perfect heaven.  And, that because of that, Jesus had to suffer, and die, for the sins of the world.

Because when He hung there on that cross, suspended between Earth and Heaven, He had the sins of all the world on His shoulders.  He literally bridged the gap between man and God; he reconciled man to Himself through His death.  Then, He rose victoriously back to life!  Hence the words of that great hymn – “My sin, not in part, but the whole, is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more.  Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, oh my soul!”

I pray you have received Him as your personal Savior, by simple faith that He did that for you; so you don’t have to bear your sin anymore.

This morning, as my husband and I were heading to the car we heard the beautiful music of a song bird.  The sun was not yet on the horizon and the morning was still cloaked in darkness.  The moon, still mostly full, was shining as brightly as it could fully prepared to give way to brighter light of sunrise.  There were many birds chirping and singing. It was a symphony of music that uplifted me and took away my dread of going into work.  Although I am grateful to have a paying job, I admit I do not exactly like the job that I have.  The beautiful songs of the birds made me smile unexpectedly.  There was one bird that was very close right in the middle of our street in front of our house.  It was as if God had sent that bird to sing the song it was created to sing just for us.

I marveled at that little bird and this Friday which is Good Friday.  Are you wondering what is so good about Good Friday?  I wonder about many things that happened on that day.

Had Jesus even slept the night before? What was that morning like for Him.  Was He filled with the dread and fear of a man or did He carry the peace and courage of the Father and as The Son of God, God among us?  Did He hear the songs of birds? Did He see any beauty around Him?

What is so good about Good Friday?
We know that Jesus had already been beaten, flogged, and treated with dis-contempt and hatred.  We know that Jesus had already suffered.  He was probably hurting awful physically and extremely sore.  He must have felt each movement of each of His muscles.  He must have hurt way down deep in His soul as the ridicule, mocking, and terrible slanderous slurs assaulted Him and rang in His mind.  To hear the people shouting, “Crucify him!”

²² Pilate said to them, “What then shall I do with Jesus who is called Christ?”  They all said to him, “Let Him be crucified!”  ²³ Then the governor said, “Why, what evil has He done?”  But they cried out all the more, saying, “Let Him be crucified!”  Matthew 27:22 & 23

The Soldiers Mock Jesus

What is so good about Good Friday?

Jesus went through the most awful inhumane treatment I have ever heard of. He was mistreated worse than any criminal!  What Jesus experienced that day is unimaginable.  What was He thinking about as He struggled to carry the cross up the hill to Calvary?  What did he notice? What was He feeling in His heart?   What was Jesus really thinking and feeling as they drove those long nail spikes into His hands and feet?  What would that feel like?  How did Jesus cope with that pain?  How did Jesus feel as they cast lots for His clothes?  Did Jesus find any comfort at all in His last moments on Earth?

³⁵ Then they crucified Him, and divided His garments, casting lots, that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by the prophet:

“ They divided My garments among them,
And for My clothing they cast lots.”

Matthew 27:35

Jesus did not do anything in His whole life to deserve what happened to Him. He was pure in mind and spirit. He was without a single sin. He was innocent of all crimes.  Yet He is the one that paid the ultimate price for all crimes and for all sin. Jesus gave His life for us on the cross. He gave everything He had for us. He loved us so much that the thought of us being separated from Him and the Father was worse than the punishment He now endured. He loved us so much that He took all sin upon Himself and all the consequences of sin upon Himself. He died in sin so that we can live in righteousness. I don’t know what He was thinking or feeling inside but I know that He was brave, full of love and blessings, and that actions speak more highly than words. He is the good of Good Friday.

Just like that little bird that was singing so beautifully this morning, Jesus did what He was born to do. Jesus fulfilled His life’s work and accomplished that which He had been born to do. He was born to be our Savior, and to save us from our sins. He accomplished this with great strength, unsurpassed courage and all encompassing love.

“[Jesus Again Predicts His Death] Now as Jesus was going up to Jerusalem, he took the twelve disciples aside and said to them, “We are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and the teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will turn him over to the Gentiles to be mocked and flogged and crucified. On the third day he will be raised to life!”- Matthew 20: 17-19

Jesus did not remain dead. He rose from the dead on the third day. He is Alive! There is life and victory in Jesus.

The victory of the cross and our salvation was what was good about Good Friday for Jesus. This victory through trials and persecutions and terrible brutality stands as the hope and promise for each of us even unto this day and for all time. What Jesus accomplished was more than anyone else could possibly bear. Only Jesus could do what needed to be done, and He did so willingly and with honor.  Jesus wasn’t interested in what was in it for Him.  Jesus wasn’t considering Himself, His desires, or His needs.  Jesus was more concerned with pleasing the Father.  Jesus was most concerned about us.  As He gave His life that day on the cross He was thinking about the man or woman in-prisoned for crimes, or on death row convicted of murder.  He was thinking about that young lady or young man that comes to the alter for the first time.  He was thinking about me and you and our salvation.  I bet He smiled inside knowing that any one who would believe in Him and all that He had done would be saved.   What He did for us is proof that He loves us just the way we are…sin and all.

Have you accepted Jesus as your personal savior?  Do you believe He died on the cross for you and to save you from your sins?  Today is Good Friday, and it is a great day to get to know Jesus better and to accept Him as LORD of lords and KING of all kings.  It is a great day to find salvation in Jesus Christ.

¹⁶ For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

John 3:16 (New King James Version)

May your life be blessed and a blessing in Christ Jesus.

How to Have Your Debt Paid in Full

The current national debt of the Untied States is an amount so staggering, few can grasp it. It’s one of the big reasons why national help with health care is so hotly debated, and people worry so much about Social Security.

There is an even bigger debt, though, than the tens of thousands of dollars owed by each man, woman, and child in the United States. And, it, too, is a debt each person owes.

What is that debt? When we see someone do something wrong, we all like to think “They’ll get what’s coming to them.” That faith helps us overcome the incredible evil that is all around us. It is a debt that wrongdoers owe. In fact, people released from prison are sometimes said to have “paid their debt to society.”

The problem is, we all commit wrongs, called sins. We all have a debt – and the combined total of that debt is great far greater than the U.S. National Debt. Think about all the lies that have been told. With so many people in the world, there are far more lies per second than the amount the National Debt increases per second. That’s not even counting the number of times people steal, hurt others, act mean, and so on. This sin debt grows higher and higher every day.

We can pay off credit cards bit by bit. Sometimes, we can agree to pay a certain amount, and a case will be closed. But, in order to do this, you have to not charge any more, right? You can’t pay a minimum balance of $100 on a credit card and then spent $150 per month on that card. It wouldn’t make sense. The debt would never be paid. And, this doesn’t even take into account the interest on that debt. More must be going to pay the debt than the amount added to the debt, in order to spend it down.

In order to get out of debt, we have to work to manage things so we are spending less than we take in. that includes interest. And, we need to manage thigns so we aren’t racking up so much interest we can’t repay.

Think about that debt that we owe because of our human nature, then. Each of us owes a debt because of those things we say, think, or do that are wrong. They’re usually not like the “debt to society” that is paid for with prison. Most of them are things that need a simple apology, or something else. But, even that is not enough to pay off the debt of sin.

It’s important to apologize sincerely, of course. It helps a lot when we do. But, the problem is, by the time we apologize for a particular sin, things have been added to that sin, like interest. For instance, let’s say we have told a lie, and later apologize and change our heart attitude, so we don’t tell that same lie anymore. In the meantime, someone found out that we lied. An amount of trust will have vanished, that had been there before. It will take more effort to build that trust back up. That trust is like an interest payment for the debt that we took on when we sinned. In a way, then, that lie indirectly causes something to be stolen, as well. And, it isn’t even the only thing that can be lost. Someone may act on that lie, and wind up losing money, losing a relationship, or something else based on it, when that thing should never have been lost.

As much as we try, we can’t be perfect. Even if a person sins 3 times a day – and even if you believe you’re a “good person,” I’m sure you’ll accept that there are 3 times a day – that’s over 1,000 sins a year.

Think about it. We get cut off in traffic, and we curse the person even though they could have a sick relative they’re rushing to visit in the hospital. We say something to hurt or tear others down instead of building them up. We rush to selfishly do something instead of thinking of others first. We commit adultery in our heart through how we look at another. As we can see, then, the debt of sin is huge.

It’s one we can’t repay. We can’t even repay the sin debt on each individual sin. But, to make matters worse, we add to that debt every day. We add to it through mean-spirited things, gossip, selfish thinking, and many other things that not only hurt people, they hurt God. What an enormous debt we owe!

Our debt to society isn’t paid with prison, though. The wages of sin is death. It’s separation from God’s perfect love and goodness forever., in a horrible place filled with sin. God, in His justice, must keep sin from His perfect Heaven, because in His love, He provides a perfect place once this life is over. It’s a place filled with goodness, where there’s no pain, no suffering, and no tears.

But wait, you ask: If the wages of sin is death, if we have all this sin, how can we reach that place? How can that debt be paid?

Thankfully, the story doesn’t stop there. The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. It’s a free gift.

See, that debt was so huge, that no person could pay it. No person could pay it, because each person would have to pay his or her own sin debt. So, god came to this world, in form of a man. Jesus Christ was 100% man and 100% God while here on Earth. He paid all your sin debt when He died on the cross for you, and rose from the dead.

Think about it. It wouldn’t do to be 51% good and 49% bad, because that sin debt would still be there. Yes, we should try to be good. But, you can’t repay a debt just by promising to not go any further into debt. The debt will still be there. But, that’s what people do when they trust in being good. They try to ignore those little debts and just focus on not having any more debt. But, that debt still has to be paid. No amount of good work can cause that debt to be paid. Thankfully, the sin debt has been paid in full. Jesus Christ is God in flesh. He, God the Father, the Holy Spirit, all His disciples (though they were tortured and killed for it), Jesus’ miracles, and the Old Testament all testify that He is the sinless one, who became sin for us.

That’s how he took on our debt. He marked it “Paid in full” when He shed His perfect blood, as the sacrifice for our sin. All the lambs that were sacrificed from the very beginning were a sign of what Jesus Christ would do someday. He was the sinless Lamb of God. He laid down His life so we could be saved from our sin debt. And then, He rose from the dead the third day.

Archaeology confirms so much of the Bible. The testimony of people like John Newton, author of “Amazing Grace,” who have been radically changed, proves that it’s possible, and it happens. Most importantly, His Holy Spirit moves in peoples’ hearts to tell them how much God loves them.

See, God is just, but He is also a God of mercy and forgiveness. God wants to forgive your sin debt. He hung on that cross, suffering agony for hours as He endured the wrath of God the Father, as the sinless substitute for each of us. Then, as He died, He cried out, “tetelestai,” which means “It is finished!” The entire debt had been paid!And, he rose again the third day; He had defeated death, so all who believe can rise with Him.

That repayment must be accepted, though. If you knew it was free, you wouldn’t refuse a person’s offer to pay off all your credit cards and other debts, right? And yet, until that person paid them off, you would still have debt, because you wouldn’t have accepted it.

In the same way, Jesus paid all your sin debt for you. And, He just needs you to accept that He did, and receive it by simple faith. God is love. He wants to pay your sin debt. You just need to:

Accept you’re a sinner, that your sin debt keeps you from His perfect Heaven, that no amount of good work can get you there;

Believe that He is God in flesh, that He died on the cross and rose from the dead for you, personally, to take all your sin debt away;

Choose to turn away from your sins, and trust Him to save you from your sin and forgive you, and to come live in you through His Holy Spirit.

That’s all it takes. It’s a free gift. I know it can be hard for some, but that’s okay; He understands. He knows You, and loves You. He’ll help you have faith if you just trust Him to; before trusting Him to forgive your sin debt, just call in your heart, “ Lord, I’m not sure if you’re out there, but I’m giving this a try, and I trust that if You are real, You will hear and answer.”

Of course, once we receive Him as our Savior, and He comes to live in us, we still sin. We have a human nature that causes us to sin. But, we have Jesus Christ living in us so we can turn to Him and get help, so we don’t sin. And, whatever happens, He will forgive and cleanse us, if we just confess our sin to Him.

The Holy Spirit living is us is His guarantee that He will never leave us, nor forsake us. He will keep working in us to get us to be good. He might have to work pretty hard to get some peoples’ attention if they wander far away in sin. But, He will always lovingly guide us back, and watch over us, and help us. Because, God is love. And, He loves you. He wants you to be totally free from the burden of sin.