Is Fear Keeping you From Success?

For God did not give us a spirit of timidity(fear), but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.  2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV)
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It is impossible for someone who has a fear of failure to achieve anything of substance because that person has never taken a chance on success. He never gave himself the opportunity to succeed.

According to Jeffrey J. Mayer, in Success is a Journey: 7 Steps to Achieving Success in the Business of Life , “Many people go through life with a fear of failure. They’re so afraid that they’re going to make a mistake, that they won’t do something right, that it won’t be perfect, that they don’t try to do anything at all. They become paralyzed and with this paralysis they lose the ability to have a rewarding, meaningful, and enjoyable life.”

We cannot let fear rob us of living a full and happy life. We can not let fear hold us hostage. Fear keeps us from reaching our full potential. Fear is the opposite of faith.  We must confront our fears head on and lean on our fatih. Faith brings us security, assurance, perseverance and hope.
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Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.                 Philippians 4:6 (NIV)
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“New Experiences will always feel a little scary,” comments Jack Canfield in his book, The Success Principles : how to get from where you are to where you want to be. “They’re supposed to.  But every time you face a fear and do it anyway, you build up that much more confidence in your abilities.”

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.

– Ephesians 3:20 (NIV)
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For more about Jack Canfield’s Success Principles click this link to go to his site.

Be A Champion of Success!

…Successful People Build Relationships

with the Right People

As Christians, we have the power to touch the lives of others every single day. It is essential to be a champion of success in the lives of others to help inspire them to their own successes in life.

Charles C. Manz explains one of his theories in his book, The Power of Failure: 27 Ways to Turn Life’s Setbacks into Success: “It can be satisfying to help someone else win, even when it means we have less time for our own immediate success. If we help others get what they want, we usually get much of value ourselves.”

Proverbs 11:25 (NIV) A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.

As we do the work of Christ, God does not expect us to “go it alone.” The Holy Spirit will sometimes lead us into partnerships to insure the success of our mission.

Jeffrey J. Mayer agrees with this premise in Success is a Journey: 7 Steps to Achieving Success in the Business of Life, he writes, “Spend your time and energy with the right people. People who offer you help, support, and encouragement… people who want to see you succeed. People who will help you achieve your goals and help you make your dreams come true…look for ways in which you can help each other.”

Try this exercise:

Make a list of 5 people who will support you as you strive to make your dreamks come true. Make it a point to speak with these people on a regualar basis. Keep them abreast of everything that is going on in your life.

“An irony, by focusing on helping others get what they want, and not on our own personal gain, we stand to gain a great deal.”

– from The Power of Failure by Charles C. Manz

Stop Passing the Buck!

…   Successful People Get Results

If you ask me, many people are successful in their lives today because they know how to get things done. Not only do tasks get completed, they get done efficiently and on time.  To be successful in any endeavor, you must accomplish your assigned task, do it well, and get it done by the deadline that was given.  If you make the most of the talents that God has given you,  you will be greatly rewarded.

Successful people are also the ones who know how to solve problems, not create new ones. You should always strive to be the person that solves problems.  According to Jeffrey J. Mayer, in his book, Success is a Journey:  7 Steps to Achieving Success in the Business of Life, “It is your ability to overcome and find solutions to problems that will make you a huge success.”  Mayer goes on to explain two points you should keep in mind concerning problem solving:

a)  People who don’t  solve problems,  never get anything done.  Instead of spending time solving the problem, they waste time complaining about them.

b)   When a problem isn’t getting solved, that means something is not getting done, someone isn’t happy, and that leads to complaining and someone leaving to go somewhere else where it can be solved.

Follow these Three Steps whenever  Solving a Problem:

1) take the time to analyze and identify the problem

2) create a plan of action to solve the problem

3) execute your plan

Keep this in mind:  unsolved problems are a drain on your mental, intellectual, and physical strength;  problems don’t just go away by themselves. They must be dealt with, worked through and brought to a final resolution or else they remain a problem forever.